Nymf, life is for living and learning. I do hope this can be resolved and you can find some boundaries that are healthy for both of you. I suggest using what you have learned and next time, hopefully, you will remember what your priorities are and what boundaries you have agrred on. A healthy dose of being hard on your self is a good thing, but be careful that you don't agree to things that don't represent your core values. You could run into feeling resentful along the line when if you had stayed true to yourself at the beginning you would be able to rest on your agreements.
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