hugs dh... really feel for all of you
i'd probably hold off on the photo sharing etc. at least with the whole family anyway... maybe just whoever is really supportive to your daughter... so they have a clear understanding.
just my two cents.
hope everything goes ok for your daughter... wish there was something i could do to help. good luck, best wishes... let us know how you are doing when you can.
Smile! It makes people wonder what you've been up to
Engaged to my sweetheart, WaterWolf