The biggest surprise for me has been how good I can be at time management, looking after myself in terms of energy levels and how content I can be.
I guess another huge one is that I am not an island. What I do and say affects people in ways I don't even know. I have to be considerate at all times of everyone around me. Something that I have grown to see is of biggest importance in poly after communication in terms of needs and information. Empathy/compassion/consideration.... HUGE!
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