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Old 05-01-2009, 07:43 PM
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smilnlol, I've realised that what concerns me about your story is not about polyamory, it's about choice.

What I feel is that if you choose to do what someone else wants out of fear of losing them, that's not really a choice - and you might that way lose something else very precious, that's uniquely your own.

Maybe I'm just projecting my 'stuff' onto you - I married someone because they wanted me to, knowing deep down that I was doing it out of fear - and in the end, I had to wake up and take back to me what I'd given away, and it was more painful for both of us by then.
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