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Old 03-06-2011, 12:23 AM
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Originally Posted by bostonwife View Post
Our relationship has a very stable foundation. We have good communication.
Hey, that's great. I hope you didn't think that I meant to imply your relationship was not stable. I didn't. It's just that we never know what will knock us off kilter, especially in relationships. So it's good to try and learn as much as possible, ask as many questions as possible, and look at all potential scenarios to prepare for taking the leap. Great that you are already setting boundaries, it will help to know what makes one or both of you uncomfortable, how to handle certain issues, etc. You sound like you're in a good place.
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