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Old 03-05-2011, 05:35 AM
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I think you need to slow down and really get introspective here. Your post is a little frantic...

Take the time you need to figure out what you want ideally... then figure out if what you want is something you are capable of doing... keep your wife involved in what you are doing, if she can't handle your self-discoveries she will let you know and a choice will be made - on no account should that choice involve someone external to your and your wife's relationship.

If this woman is right for you and it is ment to be - then the relationship will survive the self discovery you need to do. This woman should also be on her own journey (given you said she was married and being in a relationship with you would break up that marriage)...

Please do the work on yourself before you do anything - read my thread... I do understand
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