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Old 03-05-2011, 03:24 AM
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The thing about negotiating rules/boundaries/relationships in poly is that they're negotiated.
One person saying "I want/need X" isn't enough...the other person has to say "yes", "Can do", or at least "That is acceptable" with perhaps a "for now" tacked on the end.

If the rules are grating on you, then you might want to consider renegotiating them, or find someone to date with more reasonable about negotiating.
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