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Old 03-04-2011, 09:07 AM
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My two cents:

you are grieving over the loss of what you thought your future was (you and your husband... just the two of you)...

you are probably rather angry and hurt and betrayed by the fact he had a mistress and was therefore cheating on you... and grieving over the loss of your image of your past relationship with your husband...

all the while enjoying and adjusting to the new relationship you are all enjoying and developing further together...

give yourself a break, its all new, its hard and its going to be a bumpy road... you dont have to be perfect.... it sounds like you are doing really really well actually and I admire the strength you obviously have to be where you are today and sound so positive there are plenty on here in the same spot - and nowhere near the peace you seem to enjoy on occasion

hugs and welcome
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