Originally Posted by YGirl
What's your wife's standpoint on all this?
I always hate speaking for others. I always feel as much as I try, I will not really capture their perspective accurately. But I will do my best.
My wife has lost a lot of respect for my girlfriend due to past situations like these. My wife has stated she doesn't trust her and feels she is reckless with peoples hearts and that I have often been pulled into her recklessness (which I believe my wife to be right about). With that all said my wife's final words were:
I think if you stay with her she is going to be reckless and hurt you. If you draw the line in the sand, I think she is going to act out. I will be there for you in either decision. I don't think there is a good decision anymore, and I am sorry for you as I see how much pain you are going through. In the end, you are the adult and she is the child and that is how your relationship together has always been. You wanted a peer and even now she isn't stepping up. You are going to have to make the decision by yourself, something I know you hate to do.