Originally Posted by lovemultiplied
ETA: It wasn't my veto that caused things to end, but rather a combination of things that spiraled into her realizing that this might not be for her....
(The only thing that we have "veto" with for each other, that we agreed upon, was that if our lifestyle was going to ruin our marriage then a) we'd have to seriously evaluate the situation (and the very foundation of our marriage) and b) we'd have to evaluate the lifestyle for us... though I think it would be really hard to go back to strict monogamy.)
Oh ya, I didn't hear you say you have a veto agreement... I was just saying.