Originally Posted by Snarky
Now my problem is that she is devasted, feels depressed and suicidal.
I feel very alone and invisible.
If it weren't for the magical first year I'd a been out of here.
I wonder if she is only chasing the NRE. She sez she loves me as intensely as before. But, I dunno if it is my ego or reality. I feel unappreciated.
How am I supposed to deal with this?
Hi and welcome!
Sticking with a primary(?) partner who is going through major depression is hard. Get some help for yourself, a peer support group, separate councelling etc. My relationship with my primary has gone through a major paradigm shift after she got ill, and I guess we are still reeling with the aftershock.