Originally Posted by LovingRadiance
I had an epiphany moment when I realized that polyamorous was what I was.
This is me too. Although back in the day we just called it non-monogamy. I was so freakin' excited! Jumping around, my mind blew up. My wife at the time was not as excited and we eventually ended our mono poly relationship as a result and I married our then boyfriend PN. I was basically relieved that I wouldn't have to cheat and lie any more (I never did on the wife btw).