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Old 02-28-2011, 09:40 PM
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Sometimes I entertain the fantasy of reconciling with my soon-to-be-ex-husband and having it turn into a polyamorous relationship. I know he'd never go for that, and reconciliation is out of the question in his mind, but I've wondered if opening it up might've helped us, if we'd have done that a few years ago before it got bad.

Just a fantasy. <sigh>
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
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