Originally Posted by sammispecial
of course i've found several willing men that are more than happy to have this type of arrangement. so far no luck with the bf.
Careful with how "willing" these guys can be. Lots of guys like the idea of open sexual relationships. Just make sure you know what you want and so do any potential partners. A lot of women in particular can get used for one purpose when exploring this IMO. I hate to say it but guys can and sometimes will say whatever you want to hear in order to achieve thier own goals..which might be very short term.
Take care and welcome to the forums!!