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Old 02-26-2011, 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted by BlackUnicorn View Post
For me, a great relief is that I no longer have to exclude somebody because they are from a different area than I am. Long-distance might just be ideal for the single poly.
Oh, gosh, I didn't mean geographical area. When I said, "Someone who might be totally incompatible with me in one area, whom in the past would have been ruled out, is still a possibility if there is another area where we are compatible!" I meant, an area of interest or emotional need in my life. I've done LDRs and don't rule them out, but find the prospect of that less than ideal for me.
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