This is sounding like its more about sex than poly relationships... not a problem, but it could get confusing for someone if there is the expectation of romance and relationship in other ways. If you all want to get together and just have sex then all the power to you, but it might be helpful to clarify. It sounds to me that for her there is not much more than a friendship with sex... adding another sounds like it would be more of that it seems... more communicating to come me thinks.
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