Originally Posted by BlackUnicorn
Ah, the best way to get over one man is to get under a new one.
Ba da bing! Mae West, I think? Now, there was a woman ahead of her time.
Which is better; stay home and mope, play some sappy love songs and wonder if it's in fact been so long the last time you did it that human mating behavior might have changed drastically in the meanwhile; ...
Actually I was mono for so long (in practice) there were
changes in mating behavior. All that internet porn, all that anal sex and those money shots, and shaving of the pubes now being expected amongst our youth, for both genders! WTH?
(Not that I am against anal sex, but some men seem to think it's the be-all and end-all of sex now, because porn makes it look so simple and attractive. No pain, no messes, no lube, no warmup! Yikes~)
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags, F, 60, poly-dating, loving and living with
miss pixi, F, 38
Punk, 41, M (dating since Oct 2015)
and a few more casual relationships