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Old 02-25-2011, 09:41 PM
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Originally Posted by BlackUnicorn View Post
I think someone with a healthy self-esteem and a deep enjoyment of sex for the sake of sex instead of sex as a source of self-validation is much better equipped for casual things as well as relationships in general. Maybe it is about general connectedness with your feelings and being able to connect with others.
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