The date didn't happen. We rescheduled for today, but it's snowing so he's going to take off work early so he can get home early, so no lunch.
I'm in an unhappy place, so I'm keeping my mouth shut and eating carbs. I held out for an entire morning. I'm not responding to other threads in the hopes that I won't spread unhappiness. But, I will satisfy my urge to say...I hate double standards, so I try very hard not to ask my partners to do anything that I wouldn't be willing or able to do. So, I know how hard it is to walk away from NRE in order to keep from hurting someone, from first-hand experience.
Sometimes I wonder if it's worth upholding that standard, because it doesn't seem like it matters to anyone but me.