Originally Posted by amandaebo
I just really want to be with both of them all the time that's why I thought I'd suggest her moving in.
I know! You are up in your neck in what some poly people call NRE or New Relationship Energy, or we could just call it being in love. However, being so in love as you are right now is a sure sign that intelligence, reason and consideration have all been put to the back-burner for now. Not a good time to overhaul your entire everyday life.
"Resentment destroys more alcoholics than anything else. From it stems the root of our spiritual disease."
"In dealing with resentments, we set them on paper - list people, institutions and principles with whom you are angry. Ask yourself why you are angry."
"In most cases it was found out that our self-esteem, our pocketbooks, our ambitions, our personal relationships, including sex, were hurt or threatened. We were sore, burnt-up." Alcoholics Anonymous, 64-65.