Wait a minute. She doesn't live nearby, yet they are forming a musical duo? Which gives them an excuse to chat online all the time? So they aren't actually practicing music together, just chatting about music and whatever else they feel like chatting about?
He always played solo, yet is now wanting to play music with her, even tho she lives 5 hours away, and even tho he is engaged to be married??
All I can say is, hmmmm...
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
There's no lying in polyamory!
I'm a 58 year old woman with 2 partners:
miss pixi, my live-in gf, 36 (together since Jan '09)
Ginger, bf, 61, married, lives nearby (together since Jan '12)