Ok I'm gonna refer to other girl as "R"
1. R lives in our home city, but she's not from there and we live right now 5 hours away (yay for moving for jobs).
2. My fiancee and R are the only band members, he's been a solo musician since he was a young teen.
3. B/c of where we live they do all their band stuff via Skype and IM chatting.
R is supposed to be visiting us next month...to work on music stuff. I want to write out some conditions I have for them and confront them over everything. I want to lay down everything I feel I have a right to thank to you all.
I also want to direct my fiancee to this forum b/c if he thinks this is what he wants then he better start doing some reading...I'm not going to be responsible for everything and I really think that he needs to take some action and proving whether or not this is what he wants.