Originally Posted by dingedheart
I'm truly glad you have not taken offense to anything of my questions or comments because that is not my intention. As you know getting the full picture from short sentences is hard.
I think I now understand how maca could have wound up dead... I hope you have talked to a professional for that as well.
Don't get the opp in principal. Seem unfair or unbalanced. Was that before the poly journey ? GG a man right?
Who's got the desire to get revenge?
glad you found something funny.... and that's how it feels sometime.
Take care and good luck D
Yes, I know all about how easily one can be misunderstood in real life, much less online.
I have it down to a fine art! I'm actually enjoying our conversation.
There's so much more of course to every story-more of my side, more of his side, more of their side, more of our side etc. It it what it is.
I've spent quite a fair share of time in therapy and continue to work on things using the principals I learned there.
My goal in life is to be the best version of myself possible, and let me tell you what-that requires daily effort!
I don't agree with "rules" that create unbalance in a relationship-in either direction. That is what happens with an affair, it creates unbalance, because of the lie. If the lie weren't there, having sex with another person may not create that lack of balance, but if a lie is there-it sure as hell does.
Yes, that was all before the poly, before the affair as well.
Yes, GG is a man.
I am bi-but, the woman who can melt my heart... well, there was one, but she is gone. There was another who might be able to, but she's too busy to find out.
I've had desire for revenge before, though not with Maca. I'm SURE he had a desire for revenge at some point over the whole disaster trainwreck of our relationship. But, at this point, I don't think that anyone here does.
(well, except maybe my daughter, against her unborn child, cause he keeps kicking and twisting etc)
You take care too! Look forward to talking with you more.
Like conversating with people who can make me think!