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Old 02-24-2011, 08:17 PM
jasminegld jasminegld is offline
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Originally Posted by onivel View Post
... Yahoo groups has a group dedicated to support of monogamous people in committed relationships with poly partners. It can be found here.
This group has amazing people and resources. Monogamous partners of polyamorous people talk about the realities of their lives, both good and bad, success stories, cautionary tales, tips for better outcomes. Please do take advantage of what this list has to offer.

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... Yahoo groups has a group dedicated to poly people with monogamous partners here.
This group from the perspective of the poly partner is just as valuable.

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Originally Posted by Lunshbox View Post
When I say it isn't right for me, I mean that it isn't the kind of relationship I want to be involved in at all. I would never say that wouldn't change and that I would someday like and enjoy being poly.
It's not an either/or situation. It is possible for a monogamous person to thrive in a relationship with a polyamorous partner.

Go slow.
Talk to lots and lots of people in the poly community.
And go slow.

Jasmine
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