Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG
I think a mono/poly success would be where everyone is fulfilled and there is no sense of sacrifice (sacrifice being much more noticeable and constant than compromise). That's not us..we sacrifice.
If this is the case, then everyone is doomed to failure. Is the sacrifice worth it to YOU? That is the only question that really matters and only you can answer that. I deam a success as actually actively living it, struggles and all. Sometimes compromises can be reached and other times it will require a sacrifice. My experience has been that even what we consider a sacrifice can change over time and circumstances.
RP you will do great. You can offer some insight and compassion to others in similar situations, that you may not have had a year ago or even a few months ago.