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Old 02-24-2011, 02:14 AM
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Perhaps any workshop we participate in shouldn't be so much about mono/poly...but about people engaging in relationships..this one just happens to involve a mix of poly people with a mono twist.

I think we generate undue pressure on ourselves when doing workshops because we expect to represent a "mono/poly success". I think a mono/poly success would be where everyone is fulfilled and there is no sense of sacrifice (sacrifice being much more noticeable and constant than compromise). That's not us..we sacrifice. So although we might not be a poly success, we have a lot of lessons learned to share and have an intimate knowledge of issues that can and will come up. We're sharing our experience...not a guide to success.
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