What was the thread? Been so busy lately no time to monitor things here properly. Hope it wasn't something I said I got a teeny bit triggered myself with one woman. Not upset for me just frustrated with people who aren't prepared to work.
I agree with LR and I think workshops being workshops people are coming for answers. But they're not for a while. Maybe what you're going through now is actually setting you up to have some answers by then.
PS: Don't make me come over there :-)