Okay, now I've
been misunderstood, haha. Sometimes communicating online is tough, sorry I didn't express myself well. RP, I didn't mean to imply that you were saying that, sorry for sounding like that. I just thought I could see how someone might take it that way. But now it's been revealed that Conchordian was using sarcasm and I am the idiot here! Whoops!
Anyway, Sohuman, I think anyone here can identify with the confusion and not wanting to hurt someone. Many can also identify with your hubs' anger. I think you both would benefit from deconstructing the jealousy and looking at what's beneath it. I am sure more folks will weigh in, too.