So happy to discover this forum and all the poly stuff on the web. It's been awesome to see there are so many people like me. I knew it wasn't just me
I always wanted to be poly, but it was sort of at the back of my head, couldn't even come out to myself. Sounds too weird to everybody, and I had never heard about it. Then again, I kept noticing that I could fall in love with somebody new... without falling out of love with the previous person... Isn't it painful when people don't understand that
I had to wait till now, in my late 30s, to realize there are other options in life, not just a mono marriage like the one I had in the past. Never too late, I suppose.
Now I'm in love with two wonderful men, and I'd be happy with it, but there are a couple of problems... First, one of my men (the one I've been dating so far) is not really happy with poly. He is soooo mono with me, which I can find flattering in some way, but doesn't help now. My other love is happy to find someone like me
But the bad news is that he lives a thousand miles away.
How I wish I could love both of them. It would be a dream come true. I won't be easy... But as my name says, I'd love to... Or I'd love two...
Thanks for being there friends!