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Old 02-22-2011, 07:16 AM
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Originally Posted by Rebellion View Post
Hello, recently I've become attracted to a woman I met online. When the time came for us to finally tell each other we were falling for one another, she told me she was Poly.
Wait a sec, I need to ask for clarification here!

The part of your quote that I enlarged hooked me. I thought it was going to say "When the time came for us to finally meet..." So, are you saying you have both declared your love for each other without actually having met in person yet? If that's the case, it's more than likely just fantasy, not love. I'd slow down and rethink this thing you've got going solely online. You don't know how you'll feel when you actually meet her in the flesh.

If I've misunderstood, please fill in the blanks.
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