Originally Posted by janeb1958
One of his lovers hates me & I see the pain...I certainly don't want that on my side...I like the thought of -- why can't we just all get along!!! Thanks!
.. simple answer, because not everyone can. I never use the word hate, but there are lots of people I wouldn't put up with in my life... being a metamour can kind of get you stuck with people you wouldn't like.
Best of luck, hopefully the metamour can move from hating you to at least tolerating...
I know that sounds bad, but "hate" is a very difficult thing to overcome and can seep into everyone else's mood.