Advice from others needed
When we began realising we were both the type of people that leaned towards poly we were adamant that it would never be another man involved.. however, we have realised that we actually are open to this... and do now have someone else that has helped us realise this.. although we do not believe it will be a long term thing.
However, when we read everything, we are stuggling to find others that believe as we do that there should never be intimacy between the sub relationships( our term for the other relationships within ours) unless both of us in the primary relationship are involved.
I see the 3rd socially without my Husband/Master being there, but its purely social and friendly, no intimacy unless my Husband/Master is there..and I would not dream of having it any other way..... but is there a term for this. We only have intimacy with others at all when both are involved..although not always in person.( Sometimes My Husband/Master just watches me via cam when away with work)
Another thing is my Master/Husband would like to hear from people that are living with one but the female has relationships with others.. as for so long this was not something that either of us considered...but it has just kinda developed that way, and now I am looking with my Husband/Masters consent to find someone.
We do intend to still eventually have another female involved too but we expect that to just happen as and when we meet the right person.
Thank you for reading...
Cali - owned and collared Slave to her Master.