Originally Posted by Hades36
So we are supposed to have dinner on Sunday. ACK!? What do I do? How do we sit?
How you sit depends on where you are meeting. Will it be in a restaurant/coffee shop, or in your home?
In a restaurant you will sit in chairs around a table.
In your home, whatever feels comfortable. You and your wife on the couch and the gf in a chair across from you might seem most natural. But you might all sit on the couch with you in between if you prefer. Or sit around the kitchen table if that's your usual way to entertain.
It's just going to be like 3 friends meeting. There will be small talk, drinks, laughs and maybe then you get into some of the more important talk. Maybe not. Maybe just all enjoy each others' company and get to know each other.
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