There has been other threads on here about the same thing. You are not alone. I believe the advice that was given before was that you start working on your own life. Not that your relationship is doomed and you should start looking around for a way out, but for your own feelings of self worth and self esteem. To figure out what you want for your own life.
Have a browse around and see if you can find other threads on this topic. Hopefully who ever posted added a "tag." Tagging helps in that people can find what they are searching for a bit better.
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