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Old 09-11-2009, 04:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Aaronp View Post
Maybe I am just young and naive, but it seems counter-intuitive to hide what I am at first to form a relationship and go through all the mushy couple stuff only to risk it later on by saying "oh by the way, I'm poly!". For me, that part comes right after I introduce myself.
You're not naive. You are being respectful of potential partners Any other way is almost decietful in my humble opinion. The general population is monogamously inclined so it's best to find someone who understands your way of loving before they or you fall deeper into the relationship.

I would seriously lose my mind if that was sprung on me LOL!

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