Originally Posted by michou
I feel threatened when their relationship becomes “primary” as is happening more often as the wedding approaches.
These kinda things would raise a red flag for me. It'd be one thing if they were an already married couple that are moving to a triad situation...fine. But even after you've been added, they're still going through with a wedding and acting like a couple everywhere? Something just doesn't add up in my mind about that. Maybe they're thinking more of a Vee than a full triad?