I feel like I do in some ways, yes. Making sure she is OK with this has been a top priority, it just took me some time to figure out the right way to go about it.
On the other hand, Mohegan (my wife) will probably be the first to tell you that all the responsibility for this can't fall on just one person - it has to be something that both partners work together on. So, while I feel responsible for making sure that everything is OK on her end of things, that doesn't neccessarily mean that it IS all my responsibility.
This is my family. It may be little, and broken, but it's still good. Yeah, still good.