I am happy for you. I am extremely lucky and happy to have my relationship with Redpepper and in having the friendship of her husband and family.
Tonight I hung out with thier son so they could have a datenight dinner. Tomorrow, me and her husband are going to a Poly meeting to discuss peoples concepts and definitions of Polyamory. I am the only identified monogamous person there which is very interesting.
I am on the outside in many respects with thier aproach to love and certainly sex. I completely understand compersion but doubt if I will ever truly understand polyamory on a heart/soul level from the point of view of those that enjoy it. Regardless, I am in fact in a polyamorous relationship that I love and feel loved in.
Best of everything, Lemondrop