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Old 02-13-2011, 09:40 PM
Tolvelski Tolvelski is offline
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New problem, my girlfriend found someone she wants the poly relationship to work with and yet the way she chose to let me decided is "how would you feel if I want to date this person?" and I pretty much said I would like to talk to both her and this person before I say yes or no and get a idea of what Im getting into. She refused and said "It's a yes or no" she refuse to let me do anything except say yes or no to her having this relationship so I had to reply with "Do you want this to work, yes or no? Cause if it is a yes then I want to be able to talk and look before we leap into this. If not then its a no cause I refuse to be shoved into a corner an forced to make a hard decision on just a seconds notice." So what do you all think?
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