Originally Posted by vodkafan
That really works well for us and we are all happy. My wife gets to spend intensive , unhurried time with each of us and work on each relationship in turn. She likes to keep us both happy.
Don't overthink and don't ask (this is sort of sarcasm). happiness is what matters
Congrats on a successful poly relationship structure that works for you
For the record yours does sound unique...ish... but they all kind of are