Originally Posted by zephyr
I feel like I've lost the trust I gave them: that they would "have my back" like I have theirs.
I guess I need to tell them that....
Oh, yes! I think that is a very important piece of what you need to tell them.
I am so sorry you're going through this right now. But I'm glad that writing the letter seems to help. Hopefully more experienced folks will chime in here, too.