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Old 02-11-2011, 10:18 PM
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Originally Posted by zephyr View Post
I feel like I've lost the trust I gave them: that they would "have my back" like I have theirs.

I guess I need to tell them that....
Oh, yes! I think that is a very important piece of what you need to tell them.

I am so sorry you're going through this right now. But I'm glad that writing the letter seems to help. Hopefully more experienced folks will chime in here, too.
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