Originally Posted by Magdlyn
Welcome hurrican. why did you leave off the e in hurricane and what's with the drunk bit?
dang i was hoping no one notice Xd its not my usual username it was dark and i was using my netbook...=typo..><
actually it's just the name of a song i like
I also consider myself to be genderfluid. I used to get hit on by gay men sometimes when I dressed butch, back in my younger days. These days I am usually either kinda femme or soft butch, depending on my mood.
As far as preferences go, I am attracted to femmes or soft butches, no matter what they've got between their legs. I'm pansexual and my gf is a transwoman. But I date men, love men, despite their infuriatiingly bad communication styles. Damn that testosterone!
I also swing between being domme or sub.
We have much in common there. Welcome to the board. Poly is a big thing for young people to take on... it takes a lot of self-knowledge and sensitivity to others' needs. (I'm 55 and still working on all that.)
i...have had a hard time defining myself...everytime i think i find a label that fits i find some aspect of it that isnt me. i used to think i was gay, then bi sexual, then straight again.then i was transgender, then i felt more like i want to be no gender. so eventually i gave up :P
I'm happy to accept me whatever, if my friends and family need to label it to understand then thats fine XD
i don't think it's domme/sub thing for me. i was always picked on when i was kid, usually by guys a lot bigger than me and i could never fight back. i prefer relationships where im in control and i find it hard to give that over. with men though it's sort of assumed they'll take on that role and it makes things tricky :P
thanks for the welcome