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Old 02-11-2011, 05:03 PM
gemini gemini is offline
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i am a very direct person. i naturally take the leadership position if a situation arises that has no leader, by tittle or otherwise. i have had to learn to keep that in check sometimes. some people do not always react well when a person approaches them with a "direct" manner. this is true in both professional work and personal life and relationships. my wife is a structured type of person. if i don't approach her with that in mind, she shuts down or defends aggresively. our girl friend is a very reactive type of personality. if i approach her with a direct approach, she reacts very hostile. and that can be a problem sometimes because when i ask a question, i look for an immediate, cut and dry answer. give me just the facts, i don't need a pretty picture to go with it.
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