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Old 02-11-2011, 06:28 AM
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The thing with poly and life in general is that you can create whatever works for you. If you are not interested in "joining in the bedroom" then just say so at the get go and see where it goes... if it is just love and companionship you want then say so... the point is to know your self enough to be aware of your needs, be open and honest enough to communicate them, trust and face your fear enough to be present and in attendance to your relationships and to realize that you will be growing and learning as you go... mostly it means flying by the seat of your pants. Take a breath and take it slow and see where it goes. That would be my advice anyway.
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