Originally Posted by YGirl
I am a cynical person and I would have to venture that maybe the two of them deserve each other.
She is an apparently happily married woman, so is not available for that. And despite whatever he's going through right now that is making him act this way, he has been a good guy.
I understand where your cynicism comes from, but it would make me feel like shit to be cuckolded like that. I have previously had another woman break up a relationship (but she was quite deliberate--it's such a shame when your partner is too blinded by love or lust to see the other for what they really are. It may be that past baggage that is fueling me to be more assertive.) and I can't tell you how relieved and redeemed I felt when they finally broke up. I don't want to go through any of the above ever again. I knew from the getgo that being poly had the potential for both more love and more heartbreak, but in times like this I find it very hard to keep seeking out more love.