Originally Posted by redpepper
I do hope he talks to her before she comes. I think it would add insult to injury if she were to come all that way only to find she is faced with being lied to and the deciet going on. Poor woman.
I will talk to him again about it I guess, as I think I haven't made my position clear enough yet. I also hope he will tell her the whole truth, that it wasn't just once and that he really enjoyed it, and especially that he didn't do it because he was horny but because he loves me. He said that to me, and I have no doubt that it's true. I hope it for him mainly, for his karma. And I hope for her that it will make her realize that she is not more important to him and that she can learn to deal with the hurt and the situation. And for myself I hope I can learn to deal with whatever outcome this has.