Originally Posted by redpepper
What makes you think that this is my first thought? What is behind that? .
Three months into moving into together you cross boundaries and begin to push those. I moved in under different boundaries that you repeatedly said you were fulfilled within. You changed up the game just like people told me you would.
Control issue or not and maybe it is....I'm back to square one. I surrender. When you need another man, just tell me. That's not the kind of relationship I want to be in. I value our friendship first and foremost. I can be the friend of someone in an open relationship. I cannot be a lover to them.
Again this thread has been sidetracked by why I have boundaries.