Originally Posted by MrFarFromRight
But I assume that we're all feeling our ways along in this relatively new movement, I certainly feel that Purpurea's heart is in the right place, and I think that advice to a "newbie" from someone with more experienced in the movement should be more kind, forgiving, and understanding than judgemental.
Like mentioned in my post above yours, I think anyone can express their feelings and opinions they way they want to. If someone wants to judge me, they are free to do so as long as they don't harm me physically
I don't think judging people is the right way to enlightment though, but I have been judgemental myself and probably still am in a lot of situations. However, I haven't felt offended by redpepper's post at all, it is his/her point of view which I can choose to share or not. And compared to being called ruthless, selfish, and radical, which was definitely meant to make me feel bad about myself, his/her post was very kind and I felt it was rather meant as some kind of good advice