Originally Posted by redpepper
but we do need to budge a little and grow and learn .
The question is...to what ends? That is our ultimate dilemma is it not? Growing and learning are words used to describe what goal?
If I may, can a play a bit of devil's advocate? I could be wrong but when I read this I think that budging, growing and learning are directly related to me relaxing my boundaries around men entering our lives. To me (and I would suspect a lot of mono people) that would not be growth...but a sacrifice that I will ultimately have to look very hard at if I am to be in your life the way I am today. What else could these words refer to in the context of this thread?