Oh, Mono, no fear. We are all well aware of RP's "strength" in this matter. She felt constricted and she acted on it to protect her integrity, personal power, feminist principles and freedom of choice. Takes 2 to tango and all that.
However, she messed up. She feels she cheated on you. That's a big issue in any relationship. It's all out there in her blog thread, which many of us have read, going by number of views.
Cindie's been on the board for 4 months now and has had plenty of time to have become informed on your relationship with RP, and your poly tangle in general.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
The single biggest problem with communication is the illusion that it has taken place. --Shaw
me: Mags, female, pansexual, 59, loving and living with
miss pixi, female, pansexual, 37
Last edited by Magdlyn; 02-09-2011 at 10:06 PM.